Softmaxxing Mistakes to Avoid for Max Gains
Many newbros come to looksmaxxing with the wrong mindset, thinking it’s just about slapping on some moisturizer and going through the motions. Let me tell you straight up – if you want real results, SOFTMAXXING is where it’s AT. But there are plenty of mistakes that can derail your progress before it even starts.
That’s why in this post I’m dropping some hard truths about voice training for maximum gains: the techniques that WORK, and the ones you should avoid like the plague if you want to ascend from a normie to alpha status. Real talk – most guys don’t know half of what I’m about to tell you, so pay close attention and take notes.
Mistake #1: Focusing on Pitch Instead of Resonance
- Many newbros get fixated on hitting a lower pitch, but that’s only one part of the equation. You need resonance too!
- This is where most go wrong – they spend months practicing their pitches and getting nowhere fast.
- Instead, focus on breath work, posture correction (look up this, bro), and engaging your chest cavity to create that deep, rumbling resonance.
- You can’t just lower your pitch without building up the power behind it – think of a bass speaker vs some scrawny little tweeter. You feel me?
How To Fix It:
- Practice deep, diaphragmatic breathing to increase lung capacity and resonance.
- Work on your posture every day – stand up straight, shoulders back, head level. Use a mirror check yourself regularly.
- Engage your chest cavity as you speak – imagine feeling the vibrations in your chest instead of just pushing air out of your throat.
Mistake #2: Not Practicing Consistently
If you’re only dabbling with voice training once every few weeks, don’t be surprised if it takes you years to hit that endgame baritone. Consistency is key – think of it like lifting weights for your vocal cords.
Here are some tips to improve your daily consistency:
- Set aside 15-20 minutes each day just for voice training
- Break up your practice into smaller chunks throughout the day if needed (e.g. 3x per day, 5 mins each)
- Record yourself and listen back regularly to track your progress – this will help keep you motivated
- Find a buddy who’s also doing voice training and hold each other accountable for showing up every single day
Mistake #3: Using the Wrong Techniques
There are tons of bad advice out there, like straining your throat to force lower notes or trying gimmicky “pitch shifters” that don’t actually work. You need to focus on techniques backed by science and REAL world results.
Some methods with proven effectiveness include:
| Technique | How It Works | Results |
|---|---|---|
| Breathing exercises | Increases lung capacity, improves diaphragm control | More powerful, resonant voice |
| Resonance practice | Engages chest cavity and face muscles for richer tone | Deeper, more masculine sound |
| Postural correction | Opens up the throat and respiratory tract | Improved airflow, clearer pronunciation |
For specific exercises that will actually move the needle on your voice training, check out this guide for more details.
Mistake #4: Giving Up Too Soon
Real talk – some bros expect to hit their endgame voice after a week of softmaxxing. It’s just not how it works, bro. You need to be patient and consistent with your practice.
Here are some things to keep in mind:
- Rome wasn’t built in a day – voice training is no different. Focus on steady progress over time.
- Track your results (record yourself and compare) so you can see how far you’ve come.
- Don’t get discouraged by plateaus or temporary setbacks. Keep showing up every day.
And remember, softmaxxing isn’t just about the voice – it’s a holistic approach to physical and mental improvement. Check out this for more on how to optimize your entire look with proven techniques.
So there you have it – 4 common softmaxxing mistakes that are holding back most guys from hitting their full voice potential. Avoid these pitfalls and follow the advice in this post, and I guarantee you’ll see real results. GTFIH bro!
Mistake #5: Ignoring Your Unique Genetics
There’s a misconception out there that voice training can instantly transform your sound into an alpha male baritone. Let me break it to you – genetics DO play a role in your natural voice potential.
- Some bros naturally have better vocal cords, resonation chambers, and pitch control than others
- If you were born with a high-pitched or nasal voice, you likely won’t be able to turn yourself into Bruce freakin’ Dern overnight
- The key is recognizing your starting point and working on maximizing what you CAN control through training
Don’t get discouraged if you don’t reach the same level as some other guys – it just means you need to apply yourself differently. Focus on refining your technique, breathing exercises, resonance practices, etc.
Mistake #6: Focusing Only on Talking Voice
Many newbros forget that there are different types of “voices” – talking voice vs singing voice, loud yelling vs whispers, deep vs soft. You need to train multiple styles for maximum effectiveness.
| Voice Type | How It’s Trained | Benefits |
|---|---|---|
| Talking Voice | Breathing exercises, resonance practice, tongue placement | Clearer communication, deeper tone in conversations |
| Singing Voice | Scales, ear training, vocal warm-ups | Stronger vibrato, wider range |
| Yelling/Shouting | Throat and chest muscle strengthening | Louder voice projection, dominance in arguments/sports |
Here’s how to work on different types:
- For better talking: Record yourself talking normally and identify areas for improvement like pitch, pace, tone
- To train singing voice: Look up exercises online or take lessons – the key is practicing regularly
- Yelling practice: If you’re into sports, yell during games. Or just belt out some music super loudly in private to get comfortable with projection
Mistake #7: Not Recording and Analyzing Your Progress
Most guys only vaguely remember what their voice used to sound like, so they have no idea if softmaxxing is actually working. To track your gains, you need to regularly record yourself and compare old vs new.
- Set up a recording space – use good quality headphones/mics for the clearest results
- Record yourself reading from a text or script (this helps standardize your content)
- Keep an audio log of all progress recordings in one central folder on your computer
- Listen back to older recordings every few weeks and pay attention to any changes – even subtle ones are progress!
You can also use software like Audacity to help with analysis. Look up tutorials on how to measure pitch, volume, resonance etc. This level of detail will impress your bros.
Conclusion
In this post I laid out 7 common softmaxxing mistakes holding back most guys from reaching their full vocal potential. By avoiding these pitfalls and implementing the voice training techniques I outlined – consistent practice, focusing on resonance over pitch, not getting discouraged by plateaus, working with your genetics, and tracking your progress – you’ll be well on your way to leveling up your voice game.
Remember bro, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. Keep showing up every day and refining your technique, and I guarantee your voice will transform over time. Now GTFIH and get out there and train that alpha resonance!
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult with qualified healthcare professionals before making significant changes to your health, fitness, or appearance routines. Individual results may vary.